Dilemma

What's up world?? I'm back to update everyone of my current life situation. So here's the story: I live next door to the coolest family on the planet. They treat me like one of their own. Feed me whenever I come over and stuff like that. Well anyway its a family of four. I'm good friends with the lady named Pam, her Husband Herm, her son Kye, and Herm's son Reggie. Back in May, Herm had an idea to hook me and Reg up. Reg was overseas in Germany at the time so Herm gave him my email address. We chopped it up and lost contact. Well Reg left his job in Germany and moved in with Pam and Herm. So we re connect and chop it up from there, and I feel nothing. I mean nothing. My heart doesn't flutter when I see him, my stomach doesn't get butterflies. So I tell myself to give it some time and maybe I will start to catch feelings for him. There's nothing wrong with Reg at all. He is older (37 on the 2nd of this month) has a son, sweet, charming, smart, etc. Oh and he resembles Donnell Jones but with dimples. But I feel nothing!! I'm so frustrated cause he is exactly what i need in my life for a potential BF. So here's where the plot thickens.... A week and a half ago I was next door chilling with them when I hear Pam talking on the phone. She is telling the person on the phone to park in the driveway and come up. I have some pretty good intution (I get it from my mother) and something is telling me "Watch this be some fine ass nigga that comes in" and damnit if I wasn't on point with that crap!! So in comes this tall, gorgeous, redbone (I am so partial to light skinned men!) with long pretty hair and a motorcycle jacket. If I wasn't sitting already I would've passed out!! And Pam says oh-so-nonchalantly "Oh Jasmine this is Tony, my nephew" and I'm thinking "This heffa's been holding out!!". So we shake hands and he holds my hand a little too long! I'm feeling shortness of breath and ish and try not to freak. I was so flabergasted that I didn't even remember his name! LOL So by this time it's getting real late so I excuse myself and go home. Days pass and all I can think about is this tall gorgeous man with the oriental eyes. Beautiful. And now I'm thinking I need to confess that I have nothing for Reggie cause everything I should be feeling for Reg I'm feeling for Tony! And not only that I don't want to do some sneaky coniving stuff behind anyones back (especially since they're family!!).  This situation is burning a whole in my brain at this point. All I could think about is Tony. I don't want things to be awkward with me and Reggie cause I like going next door and hanging out and grubbing. So I start to text Pam. I tell her the whole truth and nothing but. And to my surprise, she isn't mad!! In fact she talks to Tony and gives me his number!!! I felt so tingly inside and crap! She told me that Reggie is really only lookin for sex only :-( and I thought so when he started to direct every damn convo towards having sex. I guess she feels Tony is more my speed anyway. So I text Tony (cause I worked the night shift and can't be on the phone) and we text each other the whole night!! We exchanged pics and we plan on seeing each other tomorrow!! But the issue is how can I let Reggie know that me and his cousin are now chopping it up? And how can I do it with out feeling awkward and uncomfortable?  Bloggers, do you have any advice or suggestions??